The Need to Surrender and Be Led

Seduction Secrets For Men

“You have to learn the rules of the game.

And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

– Albert Einstein

Hi Guys,


Human beings are pack animals. There is an innate desire by people to “belong”, either to a group, club, inner circle etc. This desire is so strong in some people that that people will go to great lengths to and do almost anything to get in. This need or desire is the platform that allows the seduction and manipulation to take place.


For the most part, the average person doesn’t know what drive him (or her, if I’ve got to be PC). They simply allow themselves to be led by others or by their randomly conditioned mechanism. Conditioning occurs all the time, from cradle to grave. I’ve alluded some social conditioning above i.e. political correctness conditioning.


People are so caught up by the treadmill of life, their day-to-day ‘activities’, the media in all its forms and the social conditioning that they never know what they really want. Because of this there appears to be a void, an intense craving, a strong need or desire to be swept away, to surrender to a higher power, a greater cause, to experience ‘falling in love’ or other intense emotional experience. (This often forms the basis of great epic stories and women’s literature).


When we find something or someone who can give us or put us into a strong emotional state, a state that consumes us, through excitement, passion, exhilaration, attraction, lust, love, etc. we allow ourselves to drop our guard, to surrender and be led.


It doesn’t matter what a person is surrendering to – as long as they get to experience that feeling. That ‘emotional high’, that is what they are after. It makes them feel alive.


Manipulators, marketers and seduction masters target that need… our need to fill that ‘hunger’, that ‘void’ and our desire to feel that emotional high.


These manipulators, marketers and seduction masters also know that they don’t have to give people what they want as the majority of people will surrender to emotions and experiences that resembles their want. In this way, people are often tricked into believing that they have found the real thing.


This means that you do not have to be what a woman wants or thinks she wants in order to attract her; you can attract her by projecting what resembles her wants.


Once you know what women want, or rather the woman you want to attract wants, all you need to do is to project or take on the image of what she is looking for in a man for her to be attracted to you.


Forget what you have seen in chick flicks. They are Mills and Boon’s in celluloid. They tell you nothing about the way a woman thinks or about the aspiration of women.


Humans are highly emotional creatures, women more so than men. And you can learn to harness this to get the woman you want.


To do this you must find what truly drives them, motivates them, makes them come alive and, yes, what makes them anxious, nervous and fearful.


You must learn to read the signs. And it sometimes helps to have someone in the other camp pass you their secrets, to provide you with the information, the mental triggers you need to know to fire genuine feelings of attraction in the opposite sex.


The secrets of attraction and seduction are easily learned.  You on the other hand must be ready to make a change. We are not talking about massive changes taking place all at once, but small incremental change… the first of which is talking responsibility for your actions followed by actually taking action.


If you can’t wait for my next posting in order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg for you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.


Until the next time.


Alain

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Mindset; A Shift in Perception.

Seduction Secrets For Men

“You have to learn the rules of the game.
And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

– Albert Einstein

Hi Guys,


A warm welcome to Attractandseduce.com‘s blog.


While this blog is about how to attract and seduce the women you want in your life will also enrich your life. And yes, I did write down women, plural. Let’s face it why stop at one. After all as half of the world’s population is female you may want, apart from a lover or lovers, a few women friends.


Have you, upon seeing some ordinary looking guy walking arm in arm with a beautiful and attractive woman, ever wondered what he had that you did not have?


What these average nondescript guys have learned is the art of seduction and attraction.


Believe me when I say that regardless of your looks, age or financial standing, you can make beautiful attractive women attracted to you, seduce them and make them fall in love with you. Anybody can learn how to do this. Because the art of seduction is more a science than an art there are proven steps that you can take that will make a woman fall for you.


Before we go any further, do yourself a favor and allow your mind to “Open Up” to another mindset. You’ve got to get your mindset right if you want to be successful in attracting the women you want. With the right mindset you will be able to take setbacks in your stride, be persistent and take action.


Let’s face it, no matter the strategy or how prepared you are things can go wrong. And when things do go wrong, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Analyze what went wrong, modify your plan and start again. Be persistent but above all take action.


Your success depends on you. We can provide you with special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce the women you want and with secret strategies but in the end your success with women is your own responsibility.


To succeed you must be serious in your desire to see a positive outcome; you must be serious enough to put in the minimum effort required; and you must be serious enough to follow through.


Have you ever noticed that people have a hard time simplifying down a process in order to make it easier to achieve?


Instead people appear to hell bent on complicating things. They create their own barriers. However, it only takes a little shift in the way you “see things” to achieve any goal you want to. It only takes a small shift in your perception in order to open the door to your future.


As human beings, we all have two ways of thinking. The first is using our logic or our conscious minds, whilst the second way of thinking is using our emotions or subconscious minds. Men on the one hand tend to use logic more than emotions while women on the other hand tend to use their emotions more.


Since women are hard wired to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings… (They can’t help it) you can turn this to your advantage.


This same hard wiring is also the reason why so many women fall for the same jerks. Even though their logical brain will be telling them that they’ll be cheated on, that they’ll be messed about and that they will be better off with the nice guy… they just cannot help themselves.


They are run by their emotional side of the brain. They cannot help but seek out the excitement of an alpha male or the bad boy.


The good news is that you don’t have to be a “bad boy” to attract women. You just need to trigger all the emotional switches in the female mind – without acting like you are someone else – to get the same success that those few same guys get, all for yourself.


Learning the secrets of attraction and seduction will, apart from changing your life, also definitely change your status among your male friends and colleagues.


The secrets of attraction and seduction are easy to learn, however you must be ready to change. We are not talking about massive changes taking place all at once, but small incremental change… the first of which is talking responsibility for your actions.


If you can’t wait for my next posting in order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg for you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.


Until the next time.


Alain

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