Have the Rules of Dating and Mating Changed That Much? Part I



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

In the not so distant past the rules of dating and mating were reasonably well defined for both men and women. But now the rules have changed. Feminism changed the rules and what we have in this post feminist era is chaos composed of a myriad of miscues, cross purpose, half conscious, petulant, capricious and contradictory female expectations that oscillate between the conceitedly egalitarian and the demurely traditional.

Feminism encourages women into the mentality that men are at the root of their problems leading to their subsequent hatred of men.

In the chaos that ensues from these contradictory female expectations the opportunities for heartbreak and humiliation are legions.

Under these ruthless conditions, men are looking for a new framework for understanding what women want.

Up to now, they have yet to come up with a satisfactory answer!

To some extent, our grand parents and even our parents were lucky; when it came to dating the was a relatively standard scenario; the man knew that he was to ask the girl out for a date, he was supposed to pick her up to go out and drop her back home after the date, and if it went well he then called her for another date. If the relationship developed enough he was supposed to ask her to marry him.

Today, the above scenario has all but disappeared. There is no standard scenario for dating and mating, or even being friends with a woman.

As a blowback to the chaos of contradictory female expectations some men refuse to or are putting off the traditional markers of adulthood such as the wife, the two-point-four children and the house. They shun marriage and the paraphernalia that comes with it preferring to hang out with their mates, watching movies or playing computer games. And who can blame them?

They do so because they are angry and a large part of their anger is turned towards women. They feel that young women are dishonest, self-involved, sluttish, manipulative, shallow, controlling and gold-diggers.

If you are a man, especially a white male, you can be discriminated against with impunity. So-called affirmative action laws are passed by feminist lead governments shills to discriminate against and marginalize white men. And as a man don’t you try to retaliate…

Male bashing is the language of situation comedies and advertising. I stopped watching so-called women stand up comedians – I really don’t feel the need to be insulted by a man hating skank. The same applies to TV shows and the adverts showing the man as a bumbling dim-witted idiot that can hardly tie his shoelaces.


For many men marriage appears to be a raw deal nowadays. We are given the impression that for men, traditional marriages, or committed relationships, with their associated socially imposed norms of being a wallets with legs for women, are empty and full of meaningless drudgery.


I touched on some of this in a previous article titled “Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter”. The article showed how certain women were taking advantage of the men they profess to “love”.

It is hard to overemphasize the distrust of young men who have witnessed divorce up close and personal when they were growing up. Apart from becoming justifiably wary of the “till-death-do-us-part” promises they also often suspect that women are out to relieve men of their earnings, children, and deepest affections, often with the help of the courts.

So when you put all this together, computer games, for some, are better companions than some diseased-ridden bar tramp who is after a free ride.

When you meet an attractive woman you have no idea what goes on in her head. She may be hoping for a hook-up, or she may be looking for friendship, a husband or a partner. She could also be a divorcee looking for a co-parent to look after her child or she could equally be looking for a sperm donor, a free meal ticket or a temporary place to stay.

She may want one thing today and another tomorrow. To be honest, I don’t think that they knows what they want themselves. And when it comes to men they want both the bad boy and the metrosexual.

So how is an ordinary guy with only modest psychic powers to know which is it tonight?

If she is a raging feminist and you open the door for her she may verbally attack you with the vitriol of a conceited egalitarian. Equally if you don’t open the door for her you could be marked down if she happened to believe in the traditional model of male chivalry.

It would appear that women have decided that they want it all and that they deserve to have it all. They want to have complete equality (in the same way as the pigs wanted equality in Orwell’s Animal Farm with some being more equal than others) whilst at the same time they want to retain the privileges of their mother’s generation. What they really want is a ratification of female privileges and whim.

I’ve often been with women who made it abundantly clear through their actions that “Their money will always be their money. And that if I am a ‘gentleman’ I would have to pay the bills when going out etc.


Get real.


I be continuing with this article tomorrow.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Body Language – Sex Signals II



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


This is the second part of an article on sex signals emanating from a woman’s body language.



Following from yesterday’s article on picking up a woman’s undercover sex signal from her body language.



Picking up on these patterns is similar to testing your powers of perception picking up what was altered between two seemingly identical drawings or pictures in a magazine or newspaper.



Once you’ve tuned in to the pattern you normally pick up the signals automatically. You’ll know which girls will welcome your approach and which girls won’t.



For example, for most guys entering a club or a bar seeing two girls giggling while pointing at him will, more often than not, cause him to take fright. His first instinct is to wonder what wrong with himself; to wonder whether his fly is open or what else is wrong with him.



Women, on the other hand, will look at a guy and as they size him up will whisper to each other. But for the guy the signal will appear similar to that of the girls pointing and giggling.



Unfortunately, on both occasions he will have misread the signal.



The problem with a lot of guys is that, when dealing with the opposite sex, they lack self-confidence and become over sensitive and paranoid. This unfortunately causes them to interpret the situation the wrong way. They fear the worst and loose their nerve.



It is a fact that girls and women often share sexual secrets with each other. The girls giggling and pointing at you or the women whispering to each other as they size you up more often than not means that they are interested in you. That signal is one of the oldest sex signals known to womankind.



In each of the above mentioned scenarios the girls or women will also be giving off other clues that tell you they are interested in you, such as an erect posture which gives her torso a better silhouette, playing with her jewellery or primping her hair. Small, easily missed undercover sex signals aimed at you.



At the same time this is going on, you are on trial. They will be observing how you interact with those around you, the way you walk, the way you talk, how you acknowledge them, etc. All this data gets analysed instantaneously and they will let you know whether you pass muster or not.



Your success in this arena depends on whether you can read these underground sex signals. And the better you can tune in to them the greater your success will be.



As a side note: The female brain is much more adept at reading subtle facial and verbal emotional expressions. Men, on the other hand, cannot read emotions—it’s only when they see actual tears that they realize that something is wrong. This is why women have evolved to cry four times more than men do, to signal distress that men cannot ignore.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Body Language – Sex Signals



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


This is the first part of an article on sex signals emanating from a woman’s body language, so bear with me.



A rather attractive lady friend of mine and I were talking about relationships, the art of seduction and pick-up artists. And the one thing that I found interesting was the fact that she said that she and her friends were tired of being hit on by men that they did not want to talk to.



What I found even more interesting was what she said straight after that. She and her friends were confounded by the fact that even though they were throwing signals to the guys they really wanted to meet – they appeared unable to pick up on the signals.



OK, so on occasion the signals may be quite subtle but they always let the guys know they are interested through their body language.



So whether you are a newbie on the dating scene or you’ve been around awhile one thing really stands out… as guys, we really suck at picking up body language signals.



Apart from the rare individual that has learned to pick up on the subliminal sex signals emanating from a woman’s body language, we miss the boat more often than not.



Let’s face it, the attractive woman sitting there with her friends is not about to wink at you, wave at you or crook her finger as a means of telling you that she is interested in you – although occasionally it does happen. She will be casting understated signals, which, naturally 97% of men will miss.



And if you miss picking up on or reading the signals she may assume that you are not interested and move on to another more aware/awake prospect.



The funny thing is that, in her mind, she thinks that she is being obvious. Mind you most of the other women in the area will actually pick up on the signals while the vast majority of guys won’t.



It’s just that men and women think differently.



Even though these undercover sex signals are subtle you can learn to tune in to them. It is just a matter of being more aware and sharpening your sensitivities.



Once you have learned to pick up on a woman’s signals you will have the edge on the other guys.



A woman’s undercover sex signal body language follows certain patterns, which once you’ve picked up on them allows you to read her like a book.



It’s like everything else once you know how to do something it becomes easier to do and the more you practice the easier it becomes.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: I’ve got to take better care of myself



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


I like my women but most of all I like attractive women. I like my women to be pleasing to the eye. I like women who take good care of themselves.



In one of my previous articles I wrote about what women look for in a man and in another I wrote about what I look for in a woman.



While I was reviewing what I had written in the past I decided to take stock of myself and sadly I must admit that I’ve let myself go. The sedentary lifestyle I’ve been leading of late just does not help at all. Generous portions of good food and wine have not helped at all. And as the saying goes “what is good for the goose is good for the gander”.



I feel that I probably need to loose between 5 and 10 kilograms. Apart from loosing this weight it would not be a bad idea to tone my body up a bit. I suppose the word weight is the wrong word to use, actually I need to loose fat.



I know that there is no miracle pill on the market. However I don’t want to spend a fortune on fad diets. So I’ve been digging around for a program that I can follow in order to loose my excess weight and keep it off.



I’ve seen a couple of promising programs that I plan to explore further. I plan to look at approximately three programs to see which of these programs suit me best.



I also plan to keep a photographic record of my progress but whether or not I will put them onto my website for all to see that is another matter.



I also plan to keep a photographic record of my progress but whether or not I will put them onto my website for all to see that is another matter.



The programs I’ve selected amongst others are:



The reason for going through them is the simple fact that we are all different and what works for one person does not necessarily work for another and so I would like to find the one that would suit me best.



As I found out for myself it is easy to forget to take care of oneself. Let’s face it but just as we want our women to look good the want us to look good as well.



So have a good hard look at yourself and if you fall short of your expectations regarding yourself I urge you to do something about it.



This brings me to another problem. I’ve known too many people that go on diets regularly. They loose the weight / fat and then in the blink of an eye pile it on once again… to only go onto another diet.



The multi billion dollar / pound / euro diet industry is only too happy for the above scenario to repeat itself ad infinitum



The way I see it; loosing weight / fat and keeping the weight off are two different things.



The problem as I see it is this: initially the dieters had a goal… to loose weight. However, once they have reached their goal they revert to type.



Whilst they were on the diet they ate less, but as soon as they finish the diet they go back to eating what they previously ate and in the same quantities as before.



I believe that to keep the weight off, you requires a lifestyle change; staring with being more active, eating less than you previously ate before the diet, drinking less alcohol and laying off junk foods, soda’s and sweets.



For most of us, there is nothing wrong with occasionally eating a packet of crisps or having the occasional drink, but for others they act as trigger foods. They act as a drug to your system and you crave more. For instance, if you open a large packet of crisps you will, instead of eating a few crisp, eat the whole packet.



Trigger foods are any foods that trigger you to overeat and/or binge. They are foods that you just can’t get enough of; one bite is never enough and one helping isn’t enough.



Trigger foods can also lead you to overeat on other foods that initially you weren’t even thinking about eating if you feel guilty for eating your trigger foods in the first place!



For me, my trigger foods are anything that contains refined sugar especially sweets. As I am aware of this, I try to moderate myself and control the amount of refined sugar I ingest.



I like my drink, but I’ve known too many people whose lives have been ruined by alcohol, so I’ve always moderated the amount I drink at any time.



However, I can only moderate the amount of trigger food through awareness and by being honest to myself. And as with all human vices it is only too easy to come up with excuses.



I think that the biggest change you have to make, when you want to loose weight and keep it off, is a mental one.



First of all you must believe that you can loose the weight because if you do not believe that you can succeed, you won’t!



As Henry Ford put it “Whether You Believe You Can, Or You Can’t, You Are Right”



If you don’t believe that you can loose the weight or think that it will be too difficult to do so you will sabotage yourself. You will loose to your subconscious mind. Oh, that so devious part of your brain, reluctant to change, will readily provide you with all the reasons not to take action.



Most people use motivation as their leverage to force themselves to act. But motivation is an external force that often requires massive steps. And for a few days or even weeks you stick with the plan until your subconscious mind wins the argument and as your motivation wanes you fall back to your old ways.



Most people use motivation as their leverage to force themselves to act. But motivation is an external force that often requires massive steps. And for a few days or even weeks you stick with the plan until your subconscious mind wins the argument and as your motivation wanes you fall back to your old ways.



It was never going to be a fair fight.



The steps were too big.



But all is not lost; there is another way.



You have to convince your subconscious mind that you really want to change. So how do we change something that wants to keep the status quo?



You have to nudge it in the right direction. You have to get it to believe that loosing weight is right for you. You have to change your core belief and for this we need a game plan that includes a step be step strategy to get your subconscious mind to be in tandem with your desired outcome… loosing weight and feeling good about yourself.



Another thing that I believe is important is educating ourselves about the food we eat. Where it comes from and where it is reared.



For instance using certain spices in our food can increase your metabolic rate considerably.



I’ve come to realise that so many preservatives, additives (such as MSG) and sweeteners (such as Aspartame) are slowly poisoning us and should be kept out of our diet if at all possible.



I have been educating myself albeit slowly. However, having the information is one thing but not acting upon this information can lead to disappointment and even frustration within oneself.



You don’t have to get everything right. Just as long as you take action on your knowledge and you’ll find yourself on the way to creating a new you one-step at a time.



If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


Let’s get going with this article’s topic in which is about predatory females.



I’ve been thinking about predatory females and the devastation they leave behind when they move on to their next target… hence the title of my post today.



Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter



I’ve seen their handy work up close and luckily I wasn’t the one in the crosshairs.



The way society works at the moment men are being discriminated against in favour of females and if you are a white male you can be discriminated against with impunity and don’t you dare try to retaliate or else…



In your search for the woman of your dreams you may unfortunately come across the gold digger. This is especially true if you earn a good salary and more so if you own your own successful business.



If you think that you have found the woman of your dreams and talk turns towards marriage – it is probably time to take a step back and go take a cold shower. You may need it.



How well do you really know the girl you are thinking of marrying? Consider the divorce statistics! In western societies marriage no longer means until death do us part. It often means until you hit a rough patch or she gets tired of you and then what often follows is that you will be mugged… legally.



The following extract was lifted from http://www.angryharry.com/page3.htm and illustrates the way a gold digger thinks and what she will do to you if you are not careful.



Now, I’m not saying that all women are like this but to be forewarned is to be forearmed.



AH: I have no idea who wrote the following …



OK. Time to put men out of your misery. Feminism was and is the biggest con in history. We talked endlessly about “equality” yet that was the last thing we wanted. You men have yet to realise that women never say what we mean. It is always shrouded in hyperbole and imagery.



So now, we are so close to having our cake and eating it. Here are just a few examples.



1) We can take you to the cleaners in divorce. No suggestion of equality there. We can have affairs and divorce you and we STILL get the house and maintenance for as long as we need. There is now absolutely no risk in a woman filing for divorce. You men don’t even have the right to shag us any more. More and more women are making their husbands live celebate lives in marriage.



Once we have that ring on our finger we rule! I am only 27. I have
been married three times. Each one I stayed with for three years and then took for every penny I could get. You see, we only have to convince a judge of “irretreivable breakdown” of the relationship. And how is that determined? Easy. When ONE party does not wish the relationship to continue.



My current husband needs another year I would say. The business he has built up is not quite where I need it to be yet. When it is, he will go the same way as the others. The house is already mine “for tax reasons”. At least thats what he thinks.



I “allowed” my name to be put on the deeds, but he will find come the day that this just means the house is mine already. I tend to go for cash settlements with regard to maintenance which leaves me free to start again. Not that I need to now. By the time I have ditched this poor sap, I will have more than enough to live a very good lifestyle with for the rest of my life.



Even if money starts to run short I can always do it again. It’s not as if I have to have sex much either. I pick men who are on the way up building their buisnesses. The hours they put in mean they are usually too tired and if they have affairs with their secretaries, well, that just makes it easier for me.



2) We get far less severe prison sentences for the same crimes. We can even murder our new born children and it is written off as Post Natal Depression. Women’s groups all over the world are working for the day when no woman will ever be sent to prison for any crime. And trust me, that day will come.



3) In the work place not only do we get paid for taking time off to have children, but now we even get pay rises while we are off, an absolute right in law to return to the job we left and in some cases now, we even get promoted while we are on leave.
Employers have to invest in our training, but we are free to screw them over by taking all the training and qualifications we can get of of them and then leaving.



4) We now have senior politicians who advocate “positive descrimination” . In other words, if you are a white male, you are where you belong. At the bottom of the heap.
Women are eased into top jobs and ministerial positions in Government. The Sisterhood is alive and well and working beautifully. The Labour Government, always breathtakingly stupid has actually gone as far as prohibiting the selection of male candidates in some wards. Fantastic.



And you poor men. What can one say? All you need is a little show of panty now and then and you are putty in our hands. You and you alone have allowed us to take this supremecy and you have done so without a whimper.



When I joined the feminist movement, I didnt really buy into the more vitriolic mantras of “all men are pigs” and “the only good man is a doormat”, but now I see you for what you are.



A means of providing what I want.



[Any spelling and punctuation errors above are not mine. The above was a cut and paste job.]



So, if a woman starts trying to find out how much you earn, especially if you have just met… just blow her off as she is may be looking for her next mark.



I know that there are some great women out there, women who would find the above just as offensive as any real man would.



I’ve known many a great guy crushed by such women and the complicit courts. And so the above is to serve as a warning. Caveat emptor – let the buyer beware.



Guys, it is time to stop thinking with your balls and start thinking with your head. Don’t be an ass; even if you think you know the girl pretty well, things happen. Get a pre-nup. You’ve worked hard for what you have. And I’m sure that your woman works hard for what she has. With the pre-nup you can both walk out with what you walked in with and split what was earned between you during the marriage. (And girls do the same – it works both ways.)



It is worth saying that men are not blameless in this unpleasant sex for designer clothes/ jewellery/breast implants transaction. You will agree that a man who buys a woman is no better than the woman who agrees to sell herself.



Don’t just read the above – take it on board. Don’t be a fool, take heed and take responsibility for your actions.




Don’t just read these tips; act on them. Practice and practice until you realise your potential and get the women you want in your life.



If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

Feed Shark

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