Nothing will happen unless you do something about it.



Hi Guys,

One of the biggest problems in life is inertia or rather a lack of inertia. Generally people have become too used to instant gratification. You see it; you want it; you buy it – period. However, the same approach cannot be applied to human relationships.

If only after reading an excellent guide, such as “Seduction Secrets For Men” or “Dirty Secrets of The Pick-Up Artist“, on how to approach and seduce any woman, you can sit back and “hey presto”, it magically happens – women fall all over themselves to go out with you?  Both, you and I both know that this is only a dream.  A great dream!  And that we would have to be totally delusional to believe in that dream.

We know that nothing will happen unless we act upon it.  And yet how many of us really act upon and apply what we read.  It is our lack of inertia that holds us back.  We are not motivated enough to turn thought into action.

After reading one of the above mentioned guides you may think that the ideas presented are really interesting and you may even be motivated enough to try some of them.  However, there’s a little voice inside your head that puts a stop to all this.  Did I say voice?  There is a whole chorus in there arguing for and against implementing any of the ideas, with some of the voices coming up with a whole host of reasons why you shouldn’t.

Those little voices represent our fear.  For many of us it is our FEAR that holds us back;  the fear of making a fool of yourself;  the fear of change;  the fear of getting hurt.

The problem here is that too many of us have been conditioned for instant gratification. And that ain’t gonna happen.

We have too take stock of ourselves before applying the secret seduction techniques that we learn about in a publication such as Seduction Secrets For Men in order to find the right strategy for ourselves.

Finding the right strategy can be frustrating at times. However, it can be made even more frustrating by our drive to find the holy grail, the big one that will win big on the night. The truth as I’ve alluded to above, is that there is no holy grail. No system or strategy is perfect, but there are many out there that work and at the end of the day all you need is an edge over the competition.

Nothing, but nothing will happen unless you are willing to put the effort in.

And yet I have seen too many guys, who could not be bothered to put the effort in applying what they’ve learned, expect a result. And because nothing happens, they blame the guide or publication for their failure to do anything. This is called “projection” where someone blames you for something they have/have not done. They never take responsibility for their action or inaction.

Don’t be one of those people who blame everyone else for what happens in their lives. Take control of it yourself and go after what you want to.  Don’t let others affect you and your dreams, because at the end of the day only you can live your life.  No one else.

If you follow the advise you’ve read on how to seduce a women, you may still get rejected or you may still stumble and screw something up but so what?  I’ll let you in on a little secret … most of those guys who are swamped with women did not just get there by force of their charisma overnight, they LEARNED how to seduce women by making mistakes and fixing them and discovering bit by bit their strengths and what makes women tick.

The difference was that they stuck with it. They did not give up.

“no art, however minor, demands less than total dedication if you want to excel in it.”
– Alberti.

If you can focus you whole attention on the ‘game’ will get what you want, and wonder why others seem so incapable of doing the same.

A final thought on the subject – Most guys don’t realize this but, in general, people outside some very demanding field don’t realize the extent to which success depends on constant (though often unconscious) effort.

For example, most people seem to consider the ability to sing as some kind of inherent quality, like being tall. In fact, most people who “can sing” like singing, and have spent many hours practicing and doing it; that’s why they’re good at it. Likewise, being popular with the ladies isn’t just something you are or you aren’t, but something you make yourself.

I would really like you to comment if you have any thoughts on the above.

Until the next time.

Alain

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