The #1 Mistake Guys Make About Attracting Women

When it comes to attracting a woman, most guys make this simple but devastating mistake: They believe that you must be very handsome or wealthy to attract women, or that you must fit into the tall, dark, and handsome profile to be attractive to women.
It’s easy to understand why a guy would think that way.  […]

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Why Average Guys End Up Dating Average Girls



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – it all starts with a mindset.


Let’s face it we all want to date really hot and beautiful women but so few of the guys I know actually do so. They fantasize about dating hot women and they edge each other on about the hot ‘babe’ that walked past. And nothing happens. In fact if that hot ‘babe’ happened to talk to them they get tongue tied.


They are obsessed with gorgeous women. And yet they always appear to land up with really average girls.


The funny thing is that this is not due to a lack of hot and beautiful women.


Statistically the ratio of men who fantasize about going out with beautiful vivacious women with those who actually date them is enormous. And the funny thing is, it has nothing to do with a lack of attractive women.


So why do “average” guys settle for “average” girls? Why do they shy away from dating girls they consider “too attractive” to go out with? Why do they think that those girls are out of their league?


The reasons why “Mr Average” avoids dating women whom they consider very attractive are


One of the biggest reasons for this avoidance is the fear of rejection. Guys have this rather stupid notion that very attractive women are hunk magnets. As a side note I have to point out something here; many of the so-called good looking guys or jocks have the same inhibition that the “average” guys have. However, the “average” guy wrongly assumes that because a woman is attractive she will automatically be approached so often by so many guys that the chance of rejection is automatically greater. And that the more attractive a woman is, the greater the chances of rejection becomes.


Another reason for this avoidance is the fear of exposure. The “average” guy wrongly assume that because an attractive woman is approached often by men who want to date them that they become accustomed to the various styles and techniques being used to attract them. And that she will see straight through his moves rendering his chance of success close to zero.


A third reason for his avoidance is often categorised by excessive shyness. Some men are naturally shy around women. And the more attractive a woman is, or the more women there are to interact with the more intense his shyness becomes.


Another reason for his avoidance is that he may suffer from a low self esteem. The problem here has to do with your self worth. One automatically assumes that because a woman is extremely attractive you expect her to be with an attractive guy. The problem here is that the “average” guy sees himself as average, that is not very attractive, not rich enough, not tall enough and ultimately not good enough for a extremely attractive woman.


Most of what we have discussed above has to do with you mindset and your expectation. The interesting thing is that the guys you regard as “attractive” to women do not necessarily see themselves in the same light. And then there is also the woman’s viewpoint – she could be attracted to what you may consider as a nerd. After all there is no accounting for taste. She could have had some bad experiences with jocks and want nothing to do with them. There are so many variables when it comes to the interactivity between men and women that you always have a chance but only if you take it.


We all see things from our perspective and what one person considers attractive is not necessarily shared by others. And this my friend makes the field wide open if only you take your chances and go for it.


I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: I’ve got to take better care of myself



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


I like my women but most of all I like attractive women. I like my women to be pleasing to the eye. I like women who take good care of themselves.



In one of my previous articles I wrote about what women look for in a man and in another I wrote about what I look for in a woman.



While I was reviewing what I had written in the past I decided to take stock of myself and sadly I must admit that I’ve let myself go. The sedentary lifestyle I’ve been leading of late just does not help at all. Generous portions of good food and wine have not helped at all. And as the saying goes “what is good for the goose is good for the gander”.



I feel that I probably need to loose between 5 and 10 kilograms. Apart from loosing this weight it would not be a bad idea to tone my body up a bit. I suppose the word weight is the wrong word to use, actually I need to loose fat.



I know that there is no miracle pill on the market. However I don’t want to spend a fortune on fad diets. So I’ve been digging around for a program that I can follow in order to loose my excess weight and keep it off.



I’ve seen a couple of promising programs that I plan to explore further. I plan to look at approximately three programs to see which of these programs suit me best.



I also plan to keep a photographic record of my progress but whether or not I will put them onto my website for all to see that is another matter.



I also plan to keep a photographic record of my progress but whether or not I will put them onto my website for all to see that is another matter.



The programs I’ve selected amongst others are:



The reason for going through them is the simple fact that we are all different and what works for one person does not necessarily work for another and so I would like to find the one that would suit me best.



As I found out for myself it is easy to forget to take care of oneself. Let’s face it but just as we want our women to look good the want us to look good as well.



So have a good hard look at yourself and if you fall short of your expectations regarding yourself I urge you to do something about it.



This brings me to another problem. I’ve known too many people that go on diets regularly. They loose the weight / fat and then in the blink of an eye pile it on once again… to only go onto another diet.



The multi billion dollar / pound / euro diet industry is only too happy for the above scenario to repeat itself ad infinitum



The way I see it; loosing weight / fat and keeping the weight off are two different things.



The problem as I see it is this: initially the dieters had a goal… to loose weight. However, once they have reached their goal they revert to type.



Whilst they were on the diet they ate less, but as soon as they finish the diet they go back to eating what they previously ate and in the same quantities as before.



I believe that to keep the weight off, you requires a lifestyle change; staring with being more active, eating less than you previously ate before the diet, drinking less alcohol and laying off junk foods, soda’s and sweets.



For most of us, there is nothing wrong with occasionally eating a packet of crisps or having the occasional drink, but for others they act as trigger foods. They act as a drug to your system and you crave more. For instance, if you open a large packet of crisps you will, instead of eating a few crisp, eat the whole packet.



Trigger foods are any foods that trigger you to overeat and/or binge. They are foods that you just can’t get enough of; one bite is never enough and one helping isn’t enough.



Trigger foods can also lead you to overeat on other foods that initially you weren’t even thinking about eating if you feel guilty for eating your trigger foods in the first place!



For me, my trigger foods are anything that contains refined sugar especially sweets. As I am aware of this, I try to moderate myself and control the amount of refined sugar I ingest.



I like my drink, but I’ve known too many people whose lives have been ruined by alcohol, so I’ve always moderated the amount I drink at any time.



However, I can only moderate the amount of trigger food through awareness and by being honest to myself. And as with all human vices it is only too easy to come up with excuses.



I think that the biggest change you have to make, when you want to loose weight and keep it off, is a mental one.



First of all you must believe that you can loose the weight because if you do not believe that you can succeed, you won’t!



As Henry Ford put it “Whether You Believe You Can, Or You Can’t, You Are Right”



If you don’t believe that you can loose the weight or think that it will be too difficult to do so you will sabotage yourself. You will loose to your subconscious mind. Oh, that so devious part of your brain, reluctant to change, will readily provide you with all the reasons not to take action.



Most people use motivation as their leverage to force themselves to act. But motivation is an external force that often requires massive steps. And for a few days or even weeks you stick with the plan until your subconscious mind wins the argument and as your motivation wanes you fall back to your old ways.



Most people use motivation as their leverage to force themselves to act. But motivation is an external force that often requires massive steps. And for a few days or even weeks you stick with the plan until your subconscious mind wins the argument and as your motivation wanes you fall back to your old ways.



It was never going to be a fair fight.



The steps were too big.



But all is not lost; there is another way.



You have to convince your subconscious mind that you really want to change. So how do we change something that wants to keep the status quo?



You have to nudge it in the right direction. You have to get it to believe that loosing weight is right for you. You have to change your core belief and for this we need a game plan that includes a step be step strategy to get your subconscious mind to be in tandem with your desired outcome… loosing weight and feeling good about yourself.



Another thing that I believe is important is educating ourselves about the food we eat. Where it comes from and where it is reared.



For instance using certain spices in our food can increase your metabolic rate considerably.



I’ve come to realise that so many preservatives, additives (such as MSG) and sweeteners (such as Aspartame) are slowly poisoning us and should be kept out of our diet if at all possible.



I have been educating myself albeit slowly. However, having the information is one thing but not acting upon this information can lead to disappointment and even frustration within oneself.



You don’t have to get everything right. Just as long as you take action on your knowledge and you’ll find yourself on the way to creating a new you one-step at a time.



If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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Fear and the problem with thinking too much

Seduction Secrets For Men


Hi guys,

Today we will approach one of the things that may be hindering you in approaching and seducing beautiful and attractive women – Fear.

Fear is part of our core program. It is helpful for survival by warning us of potential danger. It pumps up your adrenalin and mentally prepares you for to deal with the problem.

The problem lies when we allow fear to breed in our mind, which in turn inhibits our ability to take action.

Fear is all about thoughts. How you think about something determines how you feel about it and whether it is scary or not.

I’m sure that some of you will be able to relate with me

When I have to start something new, something I have never carried out before, I procrastinate, I let my fear overwhelm me and I imagine that I will not be able to do what I have to do. That is because I have to break my personal comfort zone.

And then, once I have done what I have done what I needed to do, I find that it was a lot easier than what I thought.

The same thing occurs when you approach a woman for the first time. You are breaking your personal comfort zone and entering an unknown territory and you fear rejection. Suddenly your brain switches into high gear and starts churning out images of you stuttering, tripping and falling. You see her laughing at you and not with you and you feel the blood drain from your head, you feel butterflies in your stomach and your palms start to sweat.

Fear is conquering you.

But will those things you fear actually happen.

An accumulation of negative thoughts flows into your mind causing the fear to snowball into a huge issue. And the funny thing about fear is that the vast majority of the things we fear and worry about don’t come true. This means that all the time spent worrying and fearing something that is most probably not going to happen is actually wasted.

The word fear can be deciphered as False Evidence Appearing Real.

When those negative images start appearing in your mind… STOP! Control your thoughts and visualise a positive outcome. See her smiling at you, responding positively to you and dancing with you. I am sure that you can fill your own positive thoughts for any scenario you come across.

Too much thinking and inaction allows fear to breed in your mind. Action is the Key to your salvation. Therefore, whenever you want to do something that is outside your comfort zone, don’t let fear have time to breed, just do it. Act upon it, look fear in the face and do the things you think you cannot do. Actions are the seeds to your success.

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”

– Dale Carnegie

You will learn from the experience and be able to deal with that fear the next time with more confidence and strength. Doing the things you fear, conquers that fear and turns it into part of your comfort zone.

I would really like you to comment if you have any thoughts on the above.

In order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.

Until the next time.

Alain

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Stay Away From The Booze

Seduction Secrets For Men


Hi Guys,


Just a short article today and one not at all politically correct.

You are reading this because you would like to attract and seduce beautiful attractive women. The type of woman described by Mickey Spillane in his Mike Hammer books and the sort of women seen in the earlier Mike Hammer television series with Stacy Keach i.e. drop dead gorgeous with million-dollar legs.


Some guys drink to boost their courage to approach a woman and this works up to a point, as the alcohol tends to have a relaxing effect. If you do this it would be best to limit how much you drink if you want your pick up to go as well as possible.


Earlier when we talked about believing in yourself I really meant that. You don’t need alcohol or drugs to boost your self-esteem. In fact drunks are a turn off. Drunks may think they are funny and interesting when in reality they are not. And when they the start to talk to God on the big white telephone it is darn right unappealing.


There is absolutely no way in hell that you can you sell yourself when you are drunk?


When you are trying to pick-up that gorgeous attractive woman you want to be on the ball, sharp and always aware of what is being said. Being too drunk will inhibit your ability to pick up any subtle signs of flirtation given off by women in the form of body language, gestures and verbal cues. And you will have blown it.


Being drunk also impairs your vision.



An acquaintance of mine had been drinking while he was out clubbing. He met a woman and even though inebriated managed to get her details. In his stupor he found her extremely attractive and they made plans to meet later during the week.


The following day, as he had her details, he decided to check her out on facebook. He discovered that she was a rather plain and unattractive woman.


Now I know that everybody’s tastes are different when it comes to what they consider attractive but why settle for second best?


For a while he even tried to convince himself that she was as attractive as his alcohol fuelled mind had tricked him into seeing the night before. But then he also had a stake in believing this as he had told his friend about this hot woman he had met. However, luckily for him, they soon dispelled his illusion and he didn’t go on his date.


Sure you can have a drink but moderate yourself. Only have two or three drinks instead of eight to ten.


In order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.

Until the next time.

Alain

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