Why Average Guys End Up Dating Average Girls



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – it all starts with a mindset.


Let’s face it we all want to date really hot and beautiful women but so few of the guys I know actually do so. They fantasize about dating hot women and they edge each other on about the hot ‘babe’ that walked past. And nothing happens. In fact if that hot ‘babe’ happened to talk to them they get tongue tied.


They are obsessed with gorgeous women. And yet they always appear to land up with really average girls.


The funny thing is that this is not due to a lack of hot and beautiful women.


Statistically the ratio of men who fantasize about going out with beautiful vivacious women with those who actually date them is enormous. And the funny thing is, it has nothing to do with a lack of attractive women.


So why do “average” guys settle for “average” girls? Why do they shy away from dating girls they consider “too attractive” to go out with? Why do they think that those girls are out of their league?


The reasons why “Mr Average” avoids dating women whom they consider very attractive are


One of the biggest reasons for this avoidance is the fear of rejection. Guys have this rather stupid notion that very attractive women are hunk magnets. As a side note I have to point out something here; many of the so-called good looking guys or jocks have the same inhibition that the “average” guys have. However, the “average” guy wrongly assumes that because a woman is attractive she will automatically be approached so often by so many guys that the chance of rejection is automatically greater. And that the more attractive a woman is, the greater the chances of rejection becomes.


Another reason for this avoidance is the fear of exposure. The “average” guy wrongly assume that because an attractive woman is approached often by men who want to date them that they become accustomed to the various styles and techniques being used to attract them. And that she will see straight through his moves rendering his chance of success close to zero.


A third reason for his avoidance is often categorised by excessive shyness. Some men are naturally shy around women. And the more attractive a woman is, or the more women there are to interact with the more intense his shyness becomes.


Another reason for his avoidance is that he may suffer from a low self esteem. The problem here has to do with your self worth. One automatically assumes that because a woman is extremely attractive you expect her to be with an attractive guy. The problem here is that the “average” guy sees himself as average, that is not very attractive, not rich enough, not tall enough and ultimately not good enough for a extremely attractive woman.


Most of what we have discussed above has to do with you mindset and your expectation. The interesting thing is that the guys you regard as “attractive” to women do not necessarily see themselves in the same light. And then there is also the woman’s viewpoint – she could be attracted to what you may consider as a nerd. After all there is no accounting for taste. She could have had some bad experiences with jocks and want nothing to do with them. There are so many variables when it comes to the interactivity between men and women that you always have a chance but only if you take it.


We all see things from our perspective and what one person considers attractive is not necessarily shared by others. And this my friend makes the field wide open if only you take your chances and go for it.


I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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Kissing Tips on a Date



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

To kiss or not to kiss (on a first date) that is the question.

First of all don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If it happens it happens; if it doesn’t it doesn’t. OK.

When on a first date, you should not go all out to end the date with a kiss. If anything happens on a first date it will probably involve a light peck on the cheek, or if you are lucky on the lips.

You should only kiss your date if you feel that she is comfortable with you and you feel comfortable with her.

As with everything timing is everything.

Don’t think too much; you should let your instincts tell you when the time is right. You will usually feel if it’s the right time to seize the moment to kiss her.

Let the kiss be to a certain extent be impulsive, for instance, when you are close and having fun.

The best time to give her a kiss is when you are sharing a moment together.

Things certainly don’t have to be dramatic or serious to give her a kiss. You just have to feel comfortable.

If nothing happened during the date you could always give her a kiss on the cheek once you have taken her home safe and sound.

If you have actually gone out on a second date and nothing happened during the date you could always give her a friendly kiss on the lips and see what happens.

After that the ball is firmly in your court.


As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Mindset; A Shift in Perception.

Seduction Secrets For Men

“You have to learn the rules of the game.
And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

– Albert Einstein

Hi Guys,


A warm welcome to Attractandseduce.com‘s blog.


While this blog is about how to attract and seduce the women you want in your life will also enrich your life. And yes, I did write down women, plural. Let’s face it why stop at one. After all as half of the world’s population is female you may want, apart from a lover or lovers, a few women friends.


Have you, upon seeing some ordinary looking guy walking arm in arm with a beautiful and attractive woman, ever wondered what he had that you did not have?


What these average nondescript guys have learned is the art of seduction and attraction.


Believe me when I say that regardless of your looks, age or financial standing, you can make beautiful attractive women attracted to you, seduce them and make them fall in love with you. Anybody can learn how to do this. Because the art of seduction is more a science than an art there are proven steps that you can take that will make a woman fall for you.


Before we go any further, do yourself a favor and allow your mind to “Open Up” to another mindset. You’ve got to get your mindset right if you want to be successful in attracting the women you want. With the right mindset you will be able to take setbacks in your stride, be persistent and take action.


Let’s face it, no matter the strategy or how prepared you are things can go wrong. And when things do go wrong, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Analyze what went wrong, modify your plan and start again. Be persistent but above all take action.


Your success depends on you. We can provide you with special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce the women you want and with secret strategies but in the end your success with women is your own responsibility.


To succeed you must be serious in your desire to see a positive outcome; you must be serious enough to put in the minimum effort required; and you must be serious enough to follow through.


Have you ever noticed that people have a hard time simplifying down a process in order to make it easier to achieve?


Instead people appear to hell bent on complicating things. They create their own barriers. However, it only takes a little shift in the way you “see things” to achieve any goal you want to. It only takes a small shift in your perception in order to open the door to your future.


As human beings, we all have two ways of thinking. The first is using our logic or our conscious minds, whilst the second way of thinking is using our emotions or subconscious minds. Men on the one hand tend to use logic more than emotions while women on the other hand tend to use their emotions more.


Since women are hard wired to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings… (They can’t help it) you can turn this to your advantage.


This same hard wiring is also the reason why so many women fall for the same jerks. Even though their logical brain will be telling them that they’ll be cheated on, that they’ll be messed about and that they will be better off with the nice guy… they just cannot help themselves.


They are run by their emotional side of the brain. They cannot help but seek out the excitement of an alpha male or the bad boy.


The good news is that you don’t have to be a “bad boy” to attract women. You just need to trigger all the emotional switches in the female mind – without acting like you are someone else – to get the same success that those few same guys get, all for yourself.


Learning the secrets of attraction and seduction will, apart from changing your life, also definitely change your status among your male friends and colleagues.


The secrets of attraction and seduction are easy to learn, however you must be ready to change. We are not talking about massive changes taking place all at once, but small incremental change… the first of which is talking responsibility for your actions.


If you can’t wait for my next posting in order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg for you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.


Until the next time.


Alain

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