Making Dates More Enjoyable and Fun



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Most people are usually nervous when it comes to their first dates. Your jitteriness can make you look like someone who has drunk gallons of coffee before the date.

When on a date long silences between your conversations with your date tend to be very awkward. In preparation you should try to come up with a few funny lines that can crack the ice. Just don’t try to fill the silence with mindless chatter.

You should try to spend your first date in a place where you can sit and talk with your date in order to get know each other better.

Some people may go to the movies on a first date but this means that for a long period of the evening you cannot interact with your date. And unless you know what genre of film she likes you could be ruining the evening.

If you are going to the movies you may want to go for a meal either before or after the film to make up for the time during the movie during which you will not be able to talk.

Instead of going to the movies you may prefer to have some coffee at the local coffee house, or go to a good restaurant. There is no need to impress your date by dining in an expensive restaurant.

You may consider making your dates more enjoyable and exhilarating by adding a bit of adventure or by organizing some enjoyable activities together.

You could for instance take your date to an adventurous place, go to a few local destinations or historical places in the area. Apart from having an assortment of things to see it also provide many things to talk about. The benefit of going to these places is that you wont need those funny lines to break the silence.

You should make contingency plans in case it rains, as in those occasions it will be impossible to spend time outside. You could, on the other hand go to a shopping mall for coffee.

Try and find an intimate corner where you wont be disturbed so that you can get to know your date. However, there is only so much time you can spend drinking coffee; so why don’t you invite her to go for a walk in the mall and go shop with her for such small things as clothing, DVD’s and CD’s.

You could also spend some time in a bowling alley or find a bookstore to share your interest with her.

The main idea is to interact with your date in order to get to know her better. The better you interact the greater chances of getting further dates and who knows, lead to love and romance.

With this in mind, go and check out places near you for fun activities that you and your date will surely enjoy.

As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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Self-confidence and detachment



Hi Guys,

I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Some time ago I posted an article titled “What do women look for in a man?” and one of the qualities I talked about was Confidence. And this is the focus of this article which I hope will be of benefit to some of you.

We communicate as much if not more through our body language as through verbal communication.

Whether or not you’re consciously aware of it, everything you do communicates some form of status. By being smooth and comfortable you give off a sense of quiet confidence. When you are confident and comfortable in social situations you project that automatically through your body language.

Everybody has confidence issues; it just depends on the task being performed. Self-confidence also varies depending on events and external factors. The lack of self-confidence appear to stem from various causes, however upon closer examination they appear to have a common thread – that of having irrational ideas about yourself.

It is a fact that self-confidence and social skills are just that, SKILLS. While some people appear to be endowed with and be automatically good at those skills, practice can improve your skills too.

Self-confidence is beneficial in both social and professional spheres. Without it you will more than likely miss out on many opportunities to be successful. A lack of self-confidence in the social arena could very well mean missing out on the woman of your life simply because you didn’t have the courage to go up to them and talk to them.

To generate attraction in women you have to have the confidence to talk to them.

To start building up your self-confidence, you will need to accept that you will have to step out of your comfort zone, however if you do that, you will be massively rewarded. Don’t worry you really don’t have to jump in at the deep end straight away.

You can start off by learning to talk to total strangers for instance. You could make small talk with five people you don’t know TODAY. It does not really matter what you talk about and if you don’t know what to say you can always talk about the weather. And remember to smile while talking to them.

Go into shops with women working in them and ask them questions regarding a product or if you are buying something talk to them regarding your purchase. When talking to them, use their name (it will most likely be on their name badge), smile and be friendly. Keep things light and don’t be creepy. (Online shopping is great but it takes away the human element and contact with others).

When walking through a shopping mall or a park, just say “Hi” to people you come across, and once again remember to smile. It does not matter whether they are men or women.

It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone and making an effort to do so.

You can also boost your confidence by practicing detachment. By this I mean that we give up our attachment to the outcome. We can do this through the acceptance of uncertainty as part of your experience while remaining open to all possibilities.

To practice detachment when approaching a woman is to focus upon what you do rather than what she does. You detach yourself from needing her to be any particular way. You focus on your actions without an attachment to her response to your approach. If you decide in your mind that there is nothing that you want or expect from her (A if it happens, it happens kind of approach to the situation), you will find that her ability to shake your self-confidence is greatly reduced. If you practice a calm, healthy detachment from others, while being friendly and engaging in conversation, you don’t allow their behaviour to determine how you think and feel about yourself.

Don’t deride yourself – ever. Decide to inspire people rather than spending time putting yourself down in front of others. Putting yourself down will never help you to build your self-confidence levels and may even make other people feel uncomfortable around you.

Commit yourself to behaving in a more confident manner as of NOW even if it feels like an act. Do what others such as actors, politicians, musicians, sports stars, and etc do – pretend you’re confident even if you are not. Who will know the difference? I promise not to tell if you don’t.

What makes you think that the woman you approach is not doing the same? Women have the same problems with self-confidence as men. And after all, keep in mind that any negative outcome won’t really affect your life.

You can control what people think about you. It’s not the other way around. And once you realise this your self-confidence will really power up.

So go out there, appreciate who you are, practice talking to others, practice detachment and have some fun attracting and getting the woman or women you want in your life.

I would really like you to comment if you have any thoughts on the above.


Until the next time.

Alain

PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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