The end game of dating; choosing your life’s mate

“Choose Your Life’s Mate carefully. From this one decision will come ninety percent of all your happiness or misery” -H. Jackson Brown Jr.

 

“ “The only thing worse than being alone is being with the wrong person” Reuben Schmidt, 89 years old—happily married to Joyce Schmidt for 53 years.

 

Look around you. What do you feel when you see couples that are wonderfully happy together?

 

Happy and joyful couples bless everyone they come in contact with. They uplift those they are around by their loving connection.

 

On the other hand I am sure that you know what it feels like to be around couples who are unhappy and in conflict. It is difficult to be around them and they pull the energy down around them.

 

Couples positively or negatively affect their families, the community they live in and the world at large.

 

As people have become more conscious about themselves they have also become more conscious about the kind of partner they are looking for.

 

Rather than making decisions based on superficial qualities – he’s attractive, she makes good money – people are starting to look deeper as to what they want in a partnership. I see many individuals as well as with couples who are struggling within their relationship because of basic incompatibility – they should never have been together to begin with.

 

I hear from people that they knew on their wedding day that they were making a mistake and years later they were struggling to make something work that was unworkable from the start.

 

It takes courage to look at a relationship with clear honesty and say – “This is not going to be a good match for me in the long run”.  It is best to make this decision early on because the consequences of waiting get greater and greater purely because if you do get married to a person that is wrong for you there is the pain of divorce and if there are kids involved there is even more pain. Or if you are in a long term relationship – the pain of separation is considerably higher after having your lives so intertwined.

 

There are various aspects that point towards whether a person is ready to meet their life partner.  Amongsth them are the following:

 

–          Are all of the areas of their life working for them; and

–          Have they addressed the emotional issues from past relationships?

 

You also have to have a reasonably good idea about what you are looking for in a partner and conciously move towards finding the right person.  And then you have to be clear in your own mind that you are ready for a committed relationship.  You also have to where and how you are most likely to meet your potential life partner and how you are going to attract them.  Ultimately it means effectively meeting people, developing networks and sorting the likely candidates.

 

Don’t forget that the other person is more than likely doing the same even if it is at a subconscious level.

 

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: A Low Risk Approach to Meeting a Woman



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


In this post we will be looking at some of the ways you can use to approach a woman.



Let’s assume that you are sitting in a restaurant and you notice an attractive woman having a meal with some female friends.



When you make eye contact with her and get a smile, you should move in immediately.



Here’s how the low-risk approach operates:



Have the waiter bring over a note saying something like: “Hey, I know you’re with friends, but if you’d like to make another friend, step away for a second. Unless she’s terminally shy, she will more than likely step away. No need to get clever with your introduction when she comes over. “What’s your name?”



Wait for her to ask you for your name, as this is a key indicator as to whether she’s interested in you.



Remember that a teasing and cocky attitude is necessary because it helps communicate your value as an Alpha Man. You need to communicate your confidence and independent posture to her so that she understands you’re a real man, not a wimp that will bore her after the first date. Women want men with a sexual charge about them, and are turned off by “nice guys” who can’t muster the courage to go after what they want.



End the tease with a smile to show her you’re just kidding around. If she gets indignant or weird, you excuse yourself and move on, because you’ve just discovered that she’s probably insecure and bitchy. But more often than not, you’ll now find yourself in a conversation with a hot woman. Congratulations!



End it quickly with the “Well, I have to get back to my friends. It was nice talking to you.” Then you hand her a pen and tell her to write down her email or phone number. Don’t ask her – tell her, and she’ll give it to you.



Remember, guys: If she’s interested, she doesn’t care how you introduce yourself, just as long as you do.



You know, life is a lot shorter than you think.



Ask yourself: Do you want to wind up in your rocking chair whining about all the things you should have done?



You only get one shot at this life, so seize this opportunity. It’s time to start winning.
Invest in yourself and learn the strategies and mindset that will make you successful not just with women but in LIFE.”


I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.

Until the next time.

Alain


Until the next time.


Alain

PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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Self-confidence and detachment



Hi Guys,

I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Some time ago I posted an article titled “What do women look for in a man?” and one of the qualities I talked about was Confidence. And this is the focus of this article which I hope will be of benefit to some of you.

We communicate as much if not more through our body language as through verbal communication.

Whether or not you’re consciously aware of it, everything you do communicates some form of status. By being smooth and comfortable you give off a sense of quiet confidence. When you are confident and comfortable in social situations you project that automatically through your body language.

Everybody has confidence issues; it just depends on the task being performed. Self-confidence also varies depending on events and external factors. The lack of self-confidence appear to stem from various causes, however upon closer examination they appear to have a common thread – that of having irrational ideas about yourself.

It is a fact that self-confidence and social skills are just that, SKILLS. While some people appear to be endowed with and be automatically good at those skills, practice can improve your skills too.

Self-confidence is beneficial in both social and professional spheres. Without it you will more than likely miss out on many opportunities to be successful. A lack of self-confidence in the social arena could very well mean missing out on the woman of your life simply because you didn’t have the courage to go up to them and talk to them.

To generate attraction in women you have to have the confidence to talk to them.

To start building up your self-confidence, you will need to accept that you will have to step out of your comfort zone, however if you do that, you will be massively rewarded. Don’t worry you really don’t have to jump in at the deep end straight away.

You can start off by learning to talk to total strangers for instance. You could make small talk with five people you don’t know TODAY. It does not really matter what you talk about and if you don’t know what to say you can always talk about the weather. And remember to smile while talking to them.

Go into shops with women working in them and ask them questions regarding a product or if you are buying something talk to them regarding your purchase. When talking to them, use their name (it will most likely be on their name badge), smile and be friendly. Keep things light and don’t be creepy. (Online shopping is great but it takes away the human element and contact with others).

When walking through a shopping mall or a park, just say “Hi” to people you come across, and once again remember to smile. It does not matter whether they are men or women.

It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone and making an effort to do so.

You can also boost your confidence by practicing detachment. By this I mean that we give up our attachment to the outcome. We can do this through the acceptance of uncertainty as part of your experience while remaining open to all possibilities.

To practice detachment when approaching a woman is to focus upon what you do rather than what she does. You detach yourself from needing her to be any particular way. You focus on your actions without an attachment to her response to your approach. If you decide in your mind that there is nothing that you want or expect from her (A if it happens, it happens kind of approach to the situation), you will find that her ability to shake your self-confidence is greatly reduced. If you practice a calm, healthy detachment from others, while being friendly and engaging in conversation, you don’t allow their behaviour to determine how you think and feel about yourself.

Don’t deride yourself – ever. Decide to inspire people rather than spending time putting yourself down in front of others. Putting yourself down will never help you to build your self-confidence levels and may even make other people feel uncomfortable around you.

Commit yourself to behaving in a more confident manner as of NOW even if it feels like an act. Do what others such as actors, politicians, musicians, sports stars, and etc do – pretend you’re confident even if you are not. Who will know the difference? I promise not to tell if you don’t.

What makes you think that the woman you approach is not doing the same? Women have the same problems with self-confidence as men. And after all, keep in mind that any negative outcome won’t really affect your life.

You can control what people think about you. It’s not the other way around. And once you realise this your self-confidence will really power up.

So go out there, appreciate who you are, practice talking to others, practice detachment and have some fun attracting and getting the woman or women you want in your life.

I would really like you to comment if you have any thoughts on the above.


Until the next time.

Alain

PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

Feed Shark

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Stay Away From The Booze

Seduction Secrets For Men


Hi Guys,


Just a short article today and one not at all politically correct.

You are reading this because you would like to attract and seduce beautiful attractive women. The type of woman described by Mickey Spillane in his Mike Hammer books and the sort of women seen in the earlier Mike Hammer television series with Stacy Keach i.e. drop dead gorgeous with million-dollar legs.


Some guys drink to boost their courage to approach a woman and this works up to a point, as the alcohol tends to have a relaxing effect. If you do this it would be best to limit how much you drink if you want your pick up to go as well as possible.


Earlier when we talked about believing in yourself I really meant that. You don’t need alcohol or drugs to boost your self-esteem. In fact drunks are a turn off. Drunks may think they are funny and interesting when in reality they are not. And when they the start to talk to God on the big white telephone it is darn right unappealing.


There is absolutely no way in hell that you can you sell yourself when you are drunk?


When you are trying to pick-up that gorgeous attractive woman you want to be on the ball, sharp and always aware of what is being said. Being too drunk will inhibit your ability to pick up any subtle signs of flirtation given off by women in the form of body language, gestures and verbal cues. And you will have blown it.


Being drunk also impairs your vision.



An acquaintance of mine had been drinking while he was out clubbing. He met a woman and even though inebriated managed to get her details. In his stupor he found her extremely attractive and they made plans to meet later during the week.


The following day, as he had her details, he decided to check her out on facebook. He discovered that she was a rather plain and unattractive woman.


Now I know that everybody’s tastes are different when it comes to what they consider attractive but why settle for second best?


For a while he even tried to convince himself that she was as attractive as his alcohol fuelled mind had tricked him into seeing the night before. But then he also had a stake in believing this as he had told his friend about this hot woman he had met. However, luckily for him, they soon dispelled his illusion and he didn’t go on his date.


Sure you can have a drink but moderate yourself. Only have two or three drinks instead of eight to ten.


In order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.

Until the next time.

Alain

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