Relationships: Dating Problems



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Some of the problems arising from dating occur through a lack of communication rather than of incompatibility.

Communication is a two way street. If one-person talks all the time whilst the other only listens, that is not communication. It also involves being a good listener. By that I mean really listen to the other person instead of thinking about what you are going to say next.

When it comes to incompatibility I have gone out with women, which according to others perceptions, were totally incompatible for me. And guess what? We had a great time together.

I was interested in them and made an effort to get to know them.

There will be times that you will go out with someone and things just don’t jell. This could be that you are just not right for each other. That’s OK. It happens.

Communication is extremely important during a relationship. The problem is that we have almost never been taught to communicate properly. We tend to have difficulties in expressing our feelings. Its not that we have to wear our hearts on our sleeves or that we have to be all touchy feely – we should just be honest about the way we feel and communicate this clearly.

Another problem regarding communication is not being clear about what you want and expressing this clearly.

When you communicate properly with each other you will quickly discover what you have in common and whether you are right for each other.

You don’t have to have the same likes and dislikes or even the same interests. I for one am not interested in going out with my clone.

However, if you are too radically different or you have different goals with regards to the relationship then maybe it would be wise to cut your losses. After all you cannot force a relationship.

It is quite important to communicate what you want out of your relationship so that there are no misunderstandings.

Relationship can be put under strain when one person in the relationship is needier than the other person. For instance, if you want your space but the other person is needy, always wanting to know where you are, whom you are with and what you are doing. This type of person will ultimately try to control your life. If you let this type of person control you, you will find that your friends will all drift away.

More often than not dating problems occur when your or your date’s communication skills are not up to par.

You have to be at ease with the person you are with so you can talk to them. Being at ease with the person you are with allows you to relax, open up and enjoy your time with them

If you are uncomfortable in expressing yourself to the person you are with it could be time to reconsider your relationship with her.

Being comfortable with and being able to really communicate with your date will show you how compatible you are with each other. If you don’t have these two things then you should possibly only consider a good friendship.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Body Language – the art of non-verbal communication.



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


Let’s get going with today’s topic regarding body language – the art of non verbal communication.



Body language is a term for communication using body movements or gestures instead of, or in addition to, sounds, verbal language or other communication. It forms part of the category of paralanguage, which describes all forms of human communication that are not verbal language…



In the verbal mode we use adjectives to describe feelings such as happy, sad, angry, hurt, elated, depressed etc. These adjectives can in turn be associated with physical displays, which can be easily read by others thanks to the expressions on our faces and our body language. While language describes our state of being, unconsciously our faces, bodies and vocal tones reveal even more.



Even though body language differs from country to country or from tribe to tribe but collectively everyone uses it to communicate whether they realize it or not. Everyone can recognise basic body language. We recognise that a smile represents happiness or acceptance. By observing people you can easily pick up whether they are happy, sad, in pain, furious, relaxed, uptight, nervous or aggressive. By the same token others can read you as easily as you can read them.



Your comportment/posture generates a vibe that is picked up by others and can easily influence and moderate their behaviour towards you. You project it in the way you walk and move with deliberate and focused actions. Therefore if you want to influence others in your vicinity you should work on your projection by practicing how you project yourself.



Whether a woman chooses to hang out with a man is often based on first impressions i.e. the projection or vibe you give off through your body language. Luckily for us it is skill that can be learned. We can train ourselves to change and/or adapt our body language.



Learn to broadcast confident signals with your body language. Believe that you are the greatest guy in the world and let this feeling disseminate itself through you. This will manifest and project an air of confidence about you.



Stand tall, don’t slouch; confident people hardly slouch. Besides slouching is read as being beaten or tired.



Sit upright, look and feel cool, calm and collected.



Insecurities or nervousness are easily picked up by others, as your movements will tend to be fast and edgy which may ruin your first impressions. To counter this you need to deliberately slow down your body movements. However, you still want your movements to be natural so this may take quite a bit of practice. You want to move with deliberate and focused actions.



I’ve only skimmed the surface of this subject so I’ll be dealing with body language and the art of seduction further in future posts.



If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.


I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.

Until the next time.

Alain


Until the next time.


Alain

PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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