Have the Rules of Dating and Mating Changed That Much? Part II



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


Continuing from yesterday’s post…


I really dislike those adverts that tell women that they should get the product because they are “worth it”. The problem is that women have been conditioned to actually fall for that guff.


The current dating environment appears to be designed and ruled by women with their own interest in mind.


Unfortunately for them, women cannot have it both ways.


The response to all this is a build up of resistance by men against settling down. After all if women think that it is all right to be self-indulgent and change the rules when it suits them, why shouldn’t men do the same.


Why should men be responsible when women refuse to look at their own lack of accountability?


Women often say that men can’t figure out what women want as if there is no obligation on their part to find out what men want.


In the west, where feminism is rampant, the longer the chaos of contradictory female expectations continues to reigns the more men become indifferent to women. And in the words of Elie Wiesel, the opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.


“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”


– Elie Wiesel


And indifference is possibly the worst fate possible for women. It is not that western men are indifferent to women per se; they are just indifferent to western women and what they embody.


In the west, the media appears to propagate the feminist myth that “Age is just a number”. By accepting this myth younger women accept the view that there is absolutely no hurry, that they can have a career, sleep around and once they are in their thirties get married. They also fall for the guff that they deserve all the good things in life whenever they choose. Unfortunately many wake up to reality when it is too late and no man in his right mind wants anything to do with them.


For instance what man in his right mind would go out with a woman in her late twenties who is still studying for a degree that can never translate into making money and a study debt of some £50000 ($80000)?


A growing number of women have very little to offer, other than sex. And they are not even good at that. The can’t cook, look after a home or be responsible. If they have a goal it involves working in a career they love.


The question for a man has to ask himself is if I were to marry today’s woman, what will it add to my life? For many the answer will probably be “nothing”.


Very few women appear understand the concept of “teamwork”.


The funny and contradictory thing about women is that even after forty or so years of feminism women still want security. They still want the man to be the breadwinner.


For men there is no rush to get hitched – there is plenty of time. We don’t have a biological clock ticking away the same way a woman does.


The behaviour of men is simply a logical response to the changing behaviour of women.


Some men have developed what is called the GAME after the title of Neil Strauss’ book “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists”, where instead of pursuing the previously held view of women giving up power for love and looking for a healthy marriage, they use psychological rules to their advantage to bed a high number of women and dump them as fast as possible.


The funny thing is that it works. Women prefer the psychologically dominant males to the romantic, compliant, feminist “beta” versions that women’s magazines advocate as the ideal man.


The GAME has been around for a long time in one form or other. What has changed is the use of special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce the women you want. Those special psychological and social techniques coupled with secret strategies work as if by magic.


These psychological rules, social techniques and secret strategies allows you to trigger all the emotional switches in the female mind.


To succeed you must be serious in your desire to see a positive outcome; you must be serious enough to put in the minimum effort required; and you must be serious enough to follow through.


In the end your success with women is your own responsibility.




I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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Have the Rules of Dating and Mating Changed That Much? Part I



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

In the not so distant past the rules of dating and mating were reasonably well defined for both men and women. But now the rules have changed. Feminism changed the rules and what we have in this post feminist era is chaos composed of a myriad of miscues, cross purpose, half conscious, petulant, capricious and contradictory female expectations that oscillate between the conceitedly egalitarian and the demurely traditional.

Feminism encourages women into the mentality that men are at the root of their problems leading to their subsequent hatred of men.

In the chaos that ensues from these contradictory female expectations the opportunities for heartbreak and humiliation are legions.

Under these ruthless conditions, men are looking for a new framework for understanding what women want.

Up to now, they have yet to come up with a satisfactory answer!

To some extent, our grand parents and even our parents were lucky; when it came to dating the was a relatively standard scenario; the man knew that he was to ask the girl out for a date, he was supposed to pick her up to go out and drop her back home after the date, and if it went well he then called her for another date. If the relationship developed enough he was supposed to ask her to marry him.

Today, the above scenario has all but disappeared. There is no standard scenario for dating and mating, or even being friends with a woman.

As a blowback to the chaos of contradictory female expectations some men refuse to or are putting off the traditional markers of adulthood such as the wife, the two-point-four children and the house. They shun marriage and the paraphernalia that comes with it preferring to hang out with their mates, watching movies or playing computer games. And who can blame them?

They do so because they are angry and a large part of their anger is turned towards women. They feel that young women are dishonest, self-involved, sluttish, manipulative, shallow, controlling and gold-diggers.

If you are a man, especially a white male, you can be discriminated against with impunity. So-called affirmative action laws are passed by feminist lead governments shills to discriminate against and marginalize white men. And as a man don’t you try to retaliate…

Male bashing is the language of situation comedies and advertising. I stopped watching so-called women stand up comedians – I really don’t feel the need to be insulted by a man hating skank. The same applies to TV shows and the adverts showing the man as a bumbling dim-witted idiot that can hardly tie his shoelaces.


For many men marriage appears to be a raw deal nowadays. We are given the impression that for men, traditional marriages, or committed relationships, with their associated socially imposed norms of being a wallets with legs for women, are empty and full of meaningless drudgery.


I touched on some of this in a previous article titled “Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter”. The article showed how certain women were taking advantage of the men they profess to “love”.

It is hard to overemphasize the distrust of young men who have witnessed divorce up close and personal when they were growing up. Apart from becoming justifiably wary of the “till-death-do-us-part” promises they also often suspect that women are out to relieve men of their earnings, children, and deepest affections, often with the help of the courts.

So when you put all this together, computer games, for some, are better companions than some diseased-ridden bar tramp who is after a free ride.

When you meet an attractive woman you have no idea what goes on in her head. She may be hoping for a hook-up, or she may be looking for friendship, a husband or a partner. She could also be a divorcee looking for a co-parent to look after her child or she could equally be looking for a sperm donor, a free meal ticket or a temporary place to stay.

She may want one thing today and another tomorrow. To be honest, I don’t think that they knows what they want themselves. And when it comes to men they want both the bad boy and the metrosexual.

So how is an ordinary guy with only modest psychic powers to know which is it tonight?

If she is a raging feminist and you open the door for her she may verbally attack you with the vitriol of a conceited egalitarian. Equally if you don’t open the door for her you could be marked down if she happened to believe in the traditional model of male chivalry.

It would appear that women have decided that they want it all and that they deserve to have it all. They want to have complete equality (in the same way as the pigs wanted equality in Orwell’s Animal Farm with some being more equal than others) whilst at the same time they want to retain the privileges of their mother’s generation. What they really want is a ratification of female privileges and whim.

I’ve often been with women who made it abundantly clear through their actions that “Their money will always be their money. And that if I am a ‘gentleman’ I would have to pay the bills when going out etc.


Get real.


I be continuing with this article tomorrow.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.


Let’s get going with this article’s topic in which is about predatory females.



I’ve been thinking about predatory females and the devastation they leave behind when they move on to their next target… hence the title of my post today.



Gold digger… Like a hooker… Only smarter



I’ve seen their handy work up close and luckily I wasn’t the one in the crosshairs.



The way society works at the moment men are being discriminated against in favour of females and if you are a white male you can be discriminated against with impunity and don’t you dare try to retaliate or else…



In your search for the woman of your dreams you may unfortunately come across the gold digger. This is especially true if you earn a good salary and more so if you own your own successful business.



If you think that you have found the woman of your dreams and talk turns towards marriage – it is probably time to take a step back and go take a cold shower. You may need it.



How well do you really know the girl you are thinking of marrying? Consider the divorce statistics! In western societies marriage no longer means until death do us part. It often means until you hit a rough patch or she gets tired of you and then what often follows is that you will be mugged… legally.



The following extract was lifted from http://www.angryharry.com/page3.htm and illustrates the way a gold digger thinks and what she will do to you if you are not careful.



Now, I’m not saying that all women are like this but to be forewarned is to be forearmed.



AH: I have no idea who wrote the following …



OK. Time to put men out of your misery. Feminism was and is the biggest con in history. We talked endlessly about “equality” yet that was the last thing we wanted. You men have yet to realise that women never say what we mean. It is always shrouded in hyperbole and imagery.



So now, we are so close to having our cake and eating it. Here are just a few examples.



1) We can take you to the cleaners in divorce. No suggestion of equality there. We can have affairs and divorce you and we STILL get the house and maintenance for as long as we need. There is now absolutely no risk in a woman filing for divorce. You men don’t even have the right to shag us any more. More and more women are making their husbands live celebate lives in marriage.



Once we have that ring on our finger we rule! I am only 27. I have
been married three times. Each one I stayed with for three years and then took for every penny I could get. You see, we only have to convince a judge of “irretreivable breakdown” of the relationship. And how is that determined? Easy. When ONE party does not wish the relationship to continue.



My current husband needs another year I would say. The business he has built up is not quite where I need it to be yet. When it is, he will go the same way as the others. The house is already mine “for tax reasons”. At least thats what he thinks.



I “allowed” my name to be put on the deeds, but he will find come the day that this just means the house is mine already. I tend to go for cash settlements with regard to maintenance which leaves me free to start again. Not that I need to now. By the time I have ditched this poor sap, I will have more than enough to live a very good lifestyle with for the rest of my life.



Even if money starts to run short I can always do it again. It’s not as if I have to have sex much either. I pick men who are on the way up building their buisnesses. The hours they put in mean they are usually too tired and if they have affairs with their secretaries, well, that just makes it easier for me.



2) We get far less severe prison sentences for the same crimes. We can even murder our new born children and it is written off as Post Natal Depression. Women’s groups all over the world are working for the day when no woman will ever be sent to prison for any crime. And trust me, that day will come.



3) In the work place not only do we get paid for taking time off to have children, but now we even get pay rises while we are off, an absolute right in law to return to the job we left and in some cases now, we even get promoted while we are on leave.
Employers have to invest in our training, but we are free to screw them over by taking all the training and qualifications we can get of of them and then leaving.



4) We now have senior politicians who advocate “positive descrimination” . In other words, if you are a white male, you are where you belong. At the bottom of the heap.
Women are eased into top jobs and ministerial positions in Government. The Sisterhood is alive and well and working beautifully. The Labour Government, always breathtakingly stupid has actually gone as far as prohibiting the selection of male candidates in some wards. Fantastic.



And you poor men. What can one say? All you need is a little show of panty now and then and you are putty in our hands. You and you alone have allowed us to take this supremecy and you have done so without a whimper.



When I joined the feminist movement, I didnt really buy into the more vitriolic mantras of “all men are pigs” and “the only good man is a doormat”, but now I see you for what you are.



A means of providing what I want.



[Any spelling and punctuation errors above are not mine. The above was a cut and paste job.]



So, if a woman starts trying to find out how much you earn, especially if you have just met… just blow her off as she is may be looking for her next mark.



I know that there are some great women out there, women who would find the above just as offensive as any real man would.



I’ve known many a great guy crushed by such women and the complicit courts. And so the above is to serve as a warning. Caveat emptor – let the buyer beware.



Guys, it is time to stop thinking with your balls and start thinking with your head. Don’t be an ass; even if you think you know the girl pretty well, things happen. Get a pre-nup. You’ve worked hard for what you have. And I’m sure that your woman works hard for what she has. With the pre-nup you can both walk out with what you walked in with and split what was earned between you during the marriage. (And girls do the same – it works both ways.)



It is worth saying that men are not blameless in this unpleasant sex for designer clothes/ jewellery/breast implants transaction. You will agree that a man who buys a woman is no better than the woman who agrees to sell herself.



Don’t just read the above – take it on board. Don’t be a fool, take heed and take responsibility for your actions.




Don’t just read these tips; act on them. Practice and practice until you realise your potential and get the women you want in your life.



If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

Feed Shark

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