Relationships: Dating Problems



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Some of the problems arising from dating occur through a lack of communication rather than of incompatibility.

Communication is a two way street. If one-person talks all the time whilst the other only listens, that is not communication. It also involves being a good listener. By that I mean really listen to the other person instead of thinking about what you are going to say next.

When it comes to incompatibility I have gone out with women, which according to others perceptions, were totally incompatible for me. And guess what? We had a great time together.

I was interested in them and made an effort to get to know them.

There will be times that you will go out with someone and things just don’t jell. This could be that you are just not right for each other. That’s OK. It happens.

Communication is extremely important during a relationship. The problem is that we have almost never been taught to communicate properly. We tend to have difficulties in expressing our feelings. Its not that we have to wear our hearts on our sleeves or that we have to be all touchy feely – we should just be honest about the way we feel and communicate this clearly.

Another problem regarding communication is not being clear about what you want and expressing this clearly.

When you communicate properly with each other you will quickly discover what you have in common and whether you are right for each other.

You don’t have to have the same likes and dislikes or even the same interests. I for one am not interested in going out with my clone.

However, if you are too radically different or you have different goals with regards to the relationship then maybe it would be wise to cut your losses. After all you cannot force a relationship.

It is quite important to communicate what you want out of your relationship so that there are no misunderstandings.

Relationship can be put under strain when one person in the relationship is needier than the other person. For instance, if you want your space but the other person is needy, always wanting to know where you are, whom you are with and what you are doing. This type of person will ultimately try to control your life. If you let this type of person control you, you will find that your friends will all drift away.

More often than not dating problems occur when your or your date’s communication skills are not up to par.

You have to be at ease with the person you are with so you can talk to them. Being at ease with the person you are with allows you to relax, open up and enjoy your time with them

If you are uncomfortable in expressing yourself to the person you are with it could be time to reconsider your relationship with her.

Being comfortable with and being able to really communicate with your date will show you how compatible you are with each other. If you don’t have these two things then you should possibly only consider a good friendship.



I would really appreciate your comment on the above.



As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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Online Dating Tips for Men



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

If you decide to find your dream woman by joining an online dating community you should approach the whole concept with some degree of openness as ultimately the object of the exercise would be to physically meet her once you feel that you are compatible.

Bullshitting about your wealth, your looks, your job, etc. may ruin future involvement when you finally meet.

However you should keep in mind that the other parties may not be as candid about themselves as you are about yourself.

You should be aware that you should be proactive in your approach to online dating. When you have contacted a few prospective dates online you should not feel discouraged if they do not reply to your queries.

Statistics show that some women members of online dating portals receive an average of 50 to 200 queries from members of the opposite sex. Her not replying more than likely implies that she is taking her time going through all the queries she’d received.

You will just have to be patient. At the same time, don’t sit on your hands and do nothing – be proactive and contact a few more prospective dates online.

Life is ultimately a numbers game and focusing on one woman only reduces your chance of landing a response to almost zero.

The more messages you send to various women bolsters the probability of getting a good response.

Choosing prospective dates carefully is a good thing as having some common interests makes things easier to communicate although I would get too hung up about this. I have had nothing in common with many of the women I’ve gone out with and we still had a great time together.

You do however have to stand out from the crowd if you want a good response. To do this you have to try to create a unique profile when sending out your messages. It has to stand out because, as mentioned above, you are competing against another 50 to 200 guys get noticed by your prospective online date.

You should start by using an interesting username. And before writing your profile it would be a good idea to read through your prospective online date’s profile in order to incorporate some of the things they like in your profile – things you are interested in.

This will help your prospective online date to remember your profile as she reads through the various queries. And because there are elements in your profile that tie in with hers i.e. likes and dislikes she may feel a sense of connection with you.

However as I stated at the start of this article, don’t bullshit. Whatever you put on your profile should be the truth. If you lie about things you are bound to be caught out, ruining your reputation in the online dating community.

Also sooner or later you are going to meet your prospective online date in the flesh and if you have lied, you will have to try to explain your lies away. The problem with lies, is that unless they are based on truth, they are almost impossible to correct.

Lying also prevents you from enjoying yourself as you are always on your guard whilst trying not to slip up when you are on a date with a member from the online dating community.


With this in mind, why not give it a whirl. Who knows you may just find the one you are looking for. So, go out there and have some fun.


As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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PPPS. At some point during your seduction, you’ll get to a stage where you and your lady friend will both be ready for sexual intimacy. Before you get to that stage, you may want to consider reading High On Sextasy! – a great report that shows you exactly how to please your lover in creative and sensual ways.

Hey, you’ve learned how to seduce her. You might as well learn how to drive her wild in bed too, right? 😉

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