The end game of dating; choosing your life’s mate

“Choose Your Life’s Mate carefully. From this one decision will come ninety percent of all your happiness or misery” -H. Jackson Brown Jr.


“ “The only thing worse than being alone is being with the wrong person” Reuben Schmidt, 89 years old—happily married to Joyce Schmidt for 53 years.


Look around you. What do you feel when you see couples that are wonderfully happy together?


Happy and joyful couples bless everyone they come in contact with. They uplift those they are around by their loving connection.


On the other hand I am sure that you know what it feels like to be around couples who are unhappy and in conflict. It is difficult to be around them and they pull the energy down around them.


Couples positively or negatively affect their families, the community they live in and the world at large.


As people have become more conscious about themselves they have also become more conscious about the kind of partner they are looking for.


Rather than making decisions based on superficial qualities – he’s attractive, she makes good money – people are starting to look deeper as to what they want in a partnership. I see many individuals as well as with couples who are struggling within their relationship because of basic incompatibility – they should never have been together to begin with.


I hear from people that they knew on their wedding day that they were making a mistake and years later they were struggling to make something work that was unworkable from the start.


It takes courage to look at a relationship with clear honesty and say – “This is not going to be a good match for me in the long run”.  It is best to make this decision early on because the consequences of waiting get greater and greater purely because if you do get married to a person that is wrong for you there is the pain of divorce and if there are kids involved there is even more pain. Or if you are in a long term relationship – the pain of separation is considerably higher after having your lives so intertwined.


There are various aspects that point towards whether a person is ready to meet their life partner.  Amongsth them are the following:


–          Are all of the areas of their life working for them; and

–          Have they addressed the emotional issues from past relationships?


You also have to have a reasonably good idea about what you are looking for in a partner and conciously move towards finding the right person.  And then you have to be clear in your own mind that you are ready for a committed relationship.  You also have to where and how you are most likely to meet your potential life partner and how you are going to attract them.  Ultimately it means effectively meeting people, developing networks and sorting the likely candidates.


Don’t forget that the other person is more than likely doing the same even if it is at a subconscious level.


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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Body Language – the art of non-verbal communication.

Hi Guys,

I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

Let’s get going with today’s topic regarding body language – the art of non verbal communication.

Body language is a term for communication using body movements or gestures instead of, or in addition to, sounds, verbal language or other communication. It forms part of the category of paralanguage, which describes all forms of human communication that are not verbal language…

In the verbal mode we use adjectives to describe feelings such as happy, sad, angry, hurt, elated, depressed etc. These adjectives can in turn be associated with physical displays, which can be easily read by others thanks to the expressions on our faces and our body language. While language describes our state of being, unconsciously our faces, bodies and vocal tones reveal even more.

Even though body language differs from country to country or from tribe to tribe but collectively everyone uses it to communicate whether they realize it or not. Everyone can recognise basic body language. We recognise that a smile represents happiness or acceptance. By observing people you can easily pick up whether they are happy, sad, in pain, furious, relaxed, uptight, nervous or aggressive. By the same token others can read you as easily as you can read them.

Your comportment/posture generates a vibe that is picked up by others and can easily influence and moderate their behaviour towards you. You project it in the way you walk and move with deliberate and focused actions. Therefore if you want to influence others in your vicinity you should work on your projection by practicing how you project yourself.

Whether a woman chooses to hang out with a man is often based on first impressions i.e. the projection or vibe you give off through your body language. Luckily for us it is skill that can be learned. We can train ourselves to change and/or adapt our body language.

Learn to broadcast confident signals with your body language. Believe that you are the greatest guy in the world and let this feeling disseminate itself through you. This will manifest and project an air of confidence about you.

Stand tall, don’t slouch; confident people hardly slouch. Besides slouching is read as being beaten or tired.

Sit upright, look and feel cool, calm and collected.

Insecurities or nervousness are easily picked up by others, as your movements will tend to be fast and edgy which may ruin your first impressions. To counter this you need to deliberately slow down your body movements. However, you still want your movements to be natural so this may take quite a bit of practice. You want to move with deliberate and focused actions.

I’ve only skimmed the surface of this subject so I’ll be dealing with body language and the art of seduction further in future posts.

If you would like me to write about a particular issue you may have, let me know and I’ll try to incorporate it in my posts.

I would really appreciate your comment on the above.

As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.

Until the next time.


Until the next time.


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