The end game of dating; choosing your life’s mate

“Choose Your Life’s Mate carefully. From this one decision will come ninety percent of all your happiness or misery” -H. Jackson Brown Jr.


“ “The only thing worse than being alone is being with the wrong person” Reuben Schmidt, 89 years old—happily married to Joyce Schmidt for 53 years.


Look around you. What do you feel when you see couples that are wonderfully happy together?


Happy and joyful couples bless everyone they come in contact with. They uplift those they are around by their loving connection.


On the other hand I am sure that you know what it feels like to be around couples who are unhappy and in conflict. It is difficult to be around them and they pull the energy down around them.


Couples positively or negatively affect their families, the community they live in and the world at large.


As people have become more conscious about themselves they have also become more conscious about the kind of partner they are looking for.


Rather than making decisions based on superficial qualities – he’s attractive, she makes good money – people are starting to look deeper as to what they want in a partnership. I see many individuals as well as with couples who are struggling within their relationship because of basic incompatibility – they should never have been together to begin with.


I hear from people that they knew on their wedding day that they were making a mistake and years later they were struggling to make something work that was unworkable from the start.


It takes courage to look at a relationship with clear honesty and say – “This is not going to be a good match for me in the long run”.  It is best to make this decision early on because the consequences of waiting get greater and greater purely because if you do get married to a person that is wrong for you there is the pain of divorce and if there are kids involved there is even more pain. Or if you are in a long term relationship – the pain of separation is considerably higher after having your lives so intertwined.


There are various aspects that point towards whether a person is ready to meet their life partner.  Amongsth them are the following:


–          Are all of the areas of their life working for them; and

–          Have they addressed the emotional issues from past relationships?


You also have to have a reasonably good idea about what you are looking for in a partner and conciously move towards finding the right person.  And then you have to be clear in your own mind that you are ready for a committed relationship.  You also have to where and how you are most likely to meet your potential life partner and how you are going to attract them.  Ultimately it means effectively meeting people, developing networks and sorting the likely candidates.


Don’t forget that the other person is more than likely doing the same even if it is at a subconscious level.


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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Body Language – Sex Signals

Hi Guys,

I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

This is the first part of an article on sex signals emanating from a woman’s body language, so bear with me.

A rather attractive lady friend of mine and I were talking about relationships, the art of seduction and pick-up artists. And the one thing that I found interesting was the fact that she said that she and her friends were tired of being hit on by men that they did not want to talk to.

What I found even more interesting was what she said straight after that. She and her friends were confounded by the fact that even though they were throwing signals to the guys they really wanted to meet – they appeared unable to pick up on the signals.

OK, so on occasion the signals may be quite subtle but they always let the guys know they are interested through their body language.

So whether you are a newbie on the dating scene or you’ve been around awhile one thing really stands out… as guys, we really suck at picking up body language signals.

Apart from the rare individual that has learned to pick up on the subliminal sex signals emanating from a woman’s body language, we miss the boat more often than not.

Let’s face it, the attractive woman sitting there with her friends is not about to wink at you, wave at you or crook her finger as a means of telling you that she is interested in you – although occasionally it does happen. She will be casting understated signals, which, naturally 97% of men will miss.

And if you miss picking up on or reading the signals she may assume that you are not interested and move on to another more aware/awake prospect.

The funny thing is that, in her mind, she thinks that she is being obvious. Mind you most of the other women in the area will actually pick up on the signals while the vast majority of guys won’t.

It’s just that men and women think differently.

Even though these undercover sex signals are subtle you can learn to tune in to them. It is just a matter of being more aware and sharpening your sensitivities.

Once you have learned to pick up on a woman’s signals you will have the edge on the other guys.

A woman’s undercover sex signal body language follows certain patterns, which once you’ve picked up on them allows you to read her like a book.

It’s like everything else once you know how to do something it becomes easier to do and the more you practice the easier it becomes.

I would really appreciate your comment on the above.

As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.

Until the next time.


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