Kissing Tips on a Date



Hi Guys,


I hope that you’ve all had a really great day.

To kiss or not to kiss (on a first date) that is the question.

First of all don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If it happens it happens; if it doesn’t it doesn’t. OK.

When on a first date, you should not go all out to end the date with a kiss. If anything happens on a first date it will probably involve a light peck on the cheek, or if you are lucky on the lips.

You should only kiss your date if you feel that she is comfortable with you and you feel comfortable with her.

As with everything timing is everything.

Don’t think too much; you should let your instincts tell you when the time is right. You will usually feel if it’s the right time to seize the moment to kiss her.

Let the kiss be to a certain extent be impulsive, for instance, when you are close and having fun.

The best time to give her a kiss is when you are sharing a moment together.

Things certainly don’t have to be dramatic or serious to give her a kiss. You just have to feel comfortable.

If nothing happened during the date you could always give her a kiss on the cheek once you have taken her home safe and sound.

If you have actually gone out on a second date and nothing happened during the date you could always give her a friendly kiss on the lips and see what happens.

After that the ball is firmly in your court.


As always, I wish you everything I wish myself.



Until the next time.



Alain


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Nothing will happen unless you do something about it.



Hi Guys,

One of the biggest problems in life is inertia or rather a lack of inertia. Generally people have become too used to instant gratification. You see it; you want it; you buy it – period. However, the same approach cannot be applied to human relationships.

If only after reading an excellent guide, such as “Seduction Secrets For Men” or “Dirty Secrets of The Pick-Up Artist“, on how to approach and seduce any woman, you can sit back and “hey presto”, it magically happens – women fall all over themselves to go out with you?  Both, you and I both know that this is only a dream.  A great dream!  And that we would have to be totally delusional to believe in that dream.

We know that nothing will happen unless we act upon it.  And yet how many of us really act upon and apply what we read.  It is our lack of inertia that holds us back.  We are not motivated enough to turn thought into action.

After reading one of the above mentioned guides you may think that the ideas presented are really interesting and you may even be motivated enough to try some of them.  However, there’s a little voice inside your head that puts a stop to all this.  Did I say voice?  There is a whole chorus in there arguing for and against implementing any of the ideas, with some of the voices coming up with a whole host of reasons why you shouldn’t.

Those little voices represent our fear.  For many of us it is our FEAR that holds us back;  the fear of making a fool of yourself;  the fear of change;  the fear of getting hurt.

The problem here is that too many of us have been conditioned for instant gratification. And that ain’t gonna happen.

We have too take stock of ourselves before applying the secret seduction techniques that we learn about in a publication such as Seduction Secrets For Men in order to find the right strategy for ourselves.

Finding the right strategy can be frustrating at times. However, it can be made even more frustrating by our drive to find the holy grail, the big one that will win big on the night. The truth as I’ve alluded to above, is that there is no holy grail. No system or strategy is perfect, but there are many out there that work and at the end of the day all you need is an edge over the competition.

Nothing, but nothing will happen unless you are willing to put the effort in.

And yet I have seen too many guys, who could not be bothered to put the effort in applying what they’ve learned, expect a result. And because nothing happens, they blame the guide or publication for their failure to do anything. This is called “projection” where someone blames you for something they have/have not done. They never take responsibility for their action or inaction.

Don’t be one of those people who blame everyone else for what happens in their lives. Take control of it yourself and go after what you want to.  Don’t let others affect you and your dreams, because at the end of the day only you can live your life.  No one else.

If you follow the advise you’ve read on how to seduce a women, you may still get rejected or you may still stumble and screw something up but so what?  I’ll let you in on a little secret … most of those guys who are swamped with women did not just get there by force of their charisma overnight, they LEARNED how to seduce women by making mistakes and fixing them and discovering bit by bit their strengths and what makes women tick.

The difference was that they stuck with it. They did not give up.

“no art, however minor, demands less than total dedication if you want to excel in it.”
– Alberti.

If you can focus you whole attention on the ‘game’ will get what you want, and wonder why others seem so incapable of doing the same.

A final thought on the subject – Most guys don’t realize this but, in general, people outside some very demanding field don’t realize the extent to which success depends on constant (though often unconscious) effort.

For example, most people seem to consider the ability to sing as some kind of inherent quality, like being tall. In fact, most people who “can sing” like singing, and have spent many hours practicing and doing it; that’s why they’re good at it. Likewise, being popular with the ladies isn’t just something you are or you aren’t, but something you make yourself.

I would really like you to comment if you have any thoughts on the above.

Until the next time.

Alain

PS. If you Have enjoyed this report you may want to read this special, revealing report titled, Seduction Secrets for Men: How to Find, Meet, and Seduce Women – Anywhere, Anytime! — and what you read in it will shock you! I’m not kidding. You will discover knowledge that has been kept secret from you, and from other men, for generations! It’s the very reason most men feel so powerless over beautiful women, and are complete failures in the dating game.

This report is about to change all that by revealing these closely-guarded secrets — so that you can have your power back! (And if you’re already pretty good with women, you’ll still find some hot tips to become even better at seducing them!)

PPS. If you need a proven, working system – step-by-step – in detail, about what to say to a woman to make her attracted to you within minutes of talking to her, you may want to read the Dirty Secrets of the Pickup Artist”. By buying through this link you will be taken to a Special Limited Time offer where this report comes with the audio version for free!

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How to Attract and Seduce Women: Mindset; A Shift in Perception.

Seduction Secrets For Men

“You have to learn the rules of the game.
And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

– Albert Einstein

Hi Guys,


A warm welcome to Attractandseduce.com‘s blog.


While this blog is about how to attract and seduce the women you want in your life will also enrich your life. And yes, I did write down women, plural. Let’s face it why stop at one. After all as half of the world’s population is female you may want, apart from a lover or lovers, a few women friends.


Have you, upon seeing some ordinary looking guy walking arm in arm with a beautiful and attractive woman, ever wondered what he had that you did not have?


What these average nondescript guys have learned is the art of seduction and attraction.


Believe me when I say that regardless of your looks, age or financial standing, you can make beautiful attractive women attracted to you, seduce them and make them fall in love with you. Anybody can learn how to do this. Because the art of seduction is more a science than an art there are proven steps that you can take that will make a woman fall for you.


Before we go any further, do yourself a favor and allow your mind to “Open Up” to another mindset. You’ve got to get your mindset right if you want to be successful in attracting the women you want. With the right mindset you will be able to take setbacks in your stride, be persistent and take action.


Let’s face it, no matter the strategy or how prepared you are things can go wrong. And when things do go wrong, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Analyze what went wrong, modify your plan and start again. Be persistent but above all take action.


Your success depends on you. We can provide you with special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce the women you want and with secret strategies but in the end your success with women is your own responsibility.


To succeed you must be serious in your desire to see a positive outcome; you must be serious enough to put in the minimum effort required; and you must be serious enough to follow through.


Have you ever noticed that people have a hard time simplifying down a process in order to make it easier to achieve?


Instead people appear to hell bent on complicating things. They create their own barriers. However, it only takes a little shift in the way you “see things” to achieve any goal you want to. It only takes a small shift in your perception in order to open the door to your future.


As human beings, we all have two ways of thinking. The first is using our logic or our conscious minds, whilst the second way of thinking is using our emotions or subconscious minds. Men on the one hand tend to use logic more than emotions while women on the other hand tend to use their emotions more.


Since women are hard wired to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings… (They can’t help it) you can turn this to your advantage.


This same hard wiring is also the reason why so many women fall for the same jerks. Even though their logical brain will be telling them that they’ll be cheated on, that they’ll be messed about and that they will be better off with the nice guy… they just cannot help themselves.


They are run by their emotional side of the brain. They cannot help but seek out the excitement of an alpha male or the bad boy.


The good news is that you don’t have to be a “bad boy” to attract women. You just need to trigger all the emotional switches in the female mind – without acting like you are someone else – to get the same success that those few same guys get, all for yourself.


Learning the secrets of attraction and seduction will, apart from changing your life, also definitely change your status among your male friends and colleagues.


The secrets of attraction and seduction are easy to learn, however you must be ready to change. We are not talking about massive changes taking place all at once, but small incremental change… the first of which is talking responsibility for your actions.


If you can’t wait for my next posting in order to uncover the powerful insider secrets that will skyrocket your sex life and make wonderful women beg for you to date them CLICK HERE to find out more.


Until the next time.


Alain

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